If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. She doesn't have money or a job with 3 kids luckily I still support my kids and back to her parents house. she just says she did the best she could. I know a libra and she is very controlling. I, hate when dumb people try to judge or bully me. Or is it the karma ? Most times anything short of that makes me feel unwanted. The man Libra is loyal and faithful when it comes to love relationships. I have zero desires to be a negative libra but honestly don't how to turn it around or even if I can. With that infinite patience also come a storm brewing inside that once boils over will look something like the Dark Phoenix rising to burn the earth to nothing. We can seem very listlessdifficult to make definitive decisions and standards that are near impossible to reach for those in our livesand the world in general. I've been blessed with a moon in Leo, for all of those with Leo in their charts, you know that means firey devotion on a different scale. So this article is in no way 10% correct describing how a Libra is like when wronged. They thrive on making things orderly and aesthetically pleasing. Godfather to her daughter and son her parents never had. Often, they can feel hopeless, but they do try their best to stay happy and composed, if only to keep those around them happy. Known for being indecisive and eager to please, this air sign is unlikely to ever initiate a breakup and very likely to mourn one long after it's over. She is the most flaky and fake person i know. They're divorced now. Aries (March 21 April 19) "While Aries can be charmed by Libra for a while, one thing Aries can't stand is neediness," Monahan says. It will make them seems like all is a playful and innocents relations that they have and its you, the bad guy, who fucks them over). We've all got good and bad sides ofcourse since nobodys perfect but I find Libras so well rounded. the least balanced sign. I avoid it like the plague. She talks shit about everyone and try to coaxes you into hating those people that she hates as well. Libra. Aug. 18, 2021, 9:03 a.m. Trust me, I am a Libra I know what kind of demon we can be. They are the cause to my misery. However if we recognize triggers - then it stands to reason that we can develop better coping mechanisms. god if they had only known. I have to invest more time into my life so I can be happy and feel confident and accomplished being in a relationship should amplify my happiness. Do Libras hide their emotions? I was married to a Leo before with Virgo tendencies and was totally miserable. That libra bad moon came out PURE EVIL . This is very interesting; my mother is Libra and her vacillation between kind and cruel has kept me confused and emotionally bleeding for my entire almost 58 years on this earth. When he was on his drinking binge, everything and anything was fair game. They are so desperate to avoid hearing the bad ugly truth so much that theyd cut you off abruptly when you are speaking or simply leave the room without a word being said. I am able to persuade people that my ideas are theirs and if it fails, it is on them. (5) I had a wide circle of friends and social networks. They're so charming, and appear to be understanding at first. Sorry for that. And while it would be nice to have this kind of mind-reader in our lives, we should always make sure we understand our own emotions before we get others involved. Likewise, when Libras initiate a split, they often lead with agreeable, ambiguous language (for instance, Libras would rather "take a break" than "break up"). Its not that I love the Libra guy. Their lover. my libra daughter who is 17 has buddied up with my libra mother and she doesnt understand the evil in my mother. Libra men often have a hard time speaking their feelings, and they often bottle up their emotions. Remember Libras hate conflict, but they will not tolerate cruelty happening when they can put a stop to it. Libras are the nicest people of all the signs until you rub us the wrong way. I dont like drama. She took the kids and tried to move into a shelter and she didn't even know why. We are the balance of all of the signsthe only sign in all the Zodiac that can bridge the void between each sign and become the great arbitrator of the cosmos (Sound grandiose and pompous..welcome to the world of Libra..but..we all also know it's true ;) ). He had tons of pornographic magazines when a teenager. Lets not forget Vladimir putin ffs! Bingo my libra wife and my libra wife. He ignores me somedays pays attention to me other days and never fully knows if he likes me or not lol. When she is feeling down, she may decide that she needs to end relationships or start new ones. Because Ive never seen that side of him. But disagreements. You won't have to worry about a Libra cheating. My sister is so jealous of other people's happiness, she does whatever she can to ruin theirs. But when others give you guff, you can be sure the problem is about them, not you. I looked each up, the decans explained it well. I wonder what she is saying behind my back. Muahahahaha ;)~. In this, I am able to convince strangers or people not too close to me, to give into me or to do this for me. she is a full blown malignant narcissist. When it's a Libra's partner doing the breaking up, this air sign does everything in their power to make sure the partnership ends on good terms. I remember exactly where I have wronged others and I also remember when and how many times I have compensated for those acts of selfishness or rudeness. Im a gemini. Libra (September 23 - October 22) She may have a hard time . They're not really comfortable with people they don't know, so they are usually pretty shy at first. We will love to the ends of time and to our very detriment and will give chance after chance after chance to prove your self. They like being the one that isnt surprised almost always appearing calm and wise, as if they can see the future. Mind & heart got twisted in and out 24/7 till I broke down entirely. We are the empaths of the Zodiac.the unconscious rhythm of the universe connected to both sides of all things: Light/Dark - Good/Evil - Balance/Chaos - Moderation/Gluttony - Sanity/Insanity - Love/Hate - Beauty/Ugliness - Consciousness/Unconsciousness etc etc etc. She has a lot of planets in Leo. My worst experiences involved 3 different Libras. RELATED: What To Do When A Cancer Ignores You. Other zodiac signs may be a little bit more subtle about this. Libra women are a lot to handle but sooooo worth it I love their fiestiness and exciting energy. We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us..and the people in our lives.but we never demand anything that those around us are incapable of providing. Think of Mahatma Gandhi. All the while, she is very bubbly and acts charming to get information about others. The secret to any Sun in Libra is they hate to be alone. They are tooo real people to be fake. She is conniving, manipulative and a backstabber. RELATED: How Do Pisces Act When They're Hurt. Let him ask a few questions that were way out of line before lost my temper & told him to plz back the hell off. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. As a Libra male, i agree with most of this. This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. He can't see or type his sister's name in his FB IM? The women are backbiting, self-absorbed, jealous and very lazy! They are the most hypocritical people, will never hear the truth from them. other than my mom, i love libras!!! He'll keep a lid on his feelings. Her friends, family members, or partner may begin to feel that she chooses to undermine their relationships. As long as you are not looking for clear advice or decision making, 4) When we love, we love with every part of our heart, we are absolutely ready to drop anything and everything for you. They may feel so lopsided, they'll stop caring about their favorite things, even severing ties with their passions completely. Cancer. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. Sadness and depression can take a big toll on Taurus. If a libras dark side showing youve had to provoke them in some way. These people would never guess that Professor Libra was NOT at all on their side and was infact VERY jealous of them. By hurtful i mean really hurtful libras observe and are very diplomatic, they watch your everyday behavior ask you lots of questions if they are interested and learn about you enough just to be able to push the right buttons to hurt you. And just reading some of the negative opinions and attacks on Libras by others here, it just reaffirms my choice. As an aquarius, I usually like some time for peace and space, but she keeps getting in my business and always knows how to aggravate me. Librans, like the Scales that symbolise the sign, are often concerned with attaining balance, harmony, peace, and justice in the world. My mom is one and i was in love with one. Don't interact. That mood starts in the morning and finishes at night. So it depends on the individual Libra guy and his particular situation. Because of this, they may be more prone to bottling up their feelings or acting passive-aggressive. Get An Accurate Prediction Today, The Best (And Worst) Zodiac Compatibility For Each Sign. They're prone to stomach aches and have feelings of separation from everyone around them, making them almost sick with sadness until they can calm themselves down. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. This can be dangerous for Libra when it comes to relationships, as they tend to put the needs of their partner above their own, especially Libra men. They may share common general characteristics but that's it. Not even the same first letter. I am worried that the very same relationship that i have with my parents is what I will have with my wife and kids. If you think libras like the fine things and fancy clothes, they want the best public image as well. Often people see a completely different picture of us that it actually not how we feel inside. i was a good kid. Scorpios are all about ruining your life and possibly planning to kill by all means. However, you shouldn't forget that Libras are assholes and don't buy their shit, unless you test them. Replytovengefulauthor on January 09, 2017: As someone that has done a lot of astrology reading I can admit I know some of these traits can be very true of a libra. yes every sign has a dark side. How do you know when to let go of someone you love? They will, only and only if it's required. Think of Judge Judy (born October 21) and the pain she's seen and absorbed over 25 years as a judge in family court. Scorpio's passion can turn negative when they're feeling sad or depressed, causing them to become hostile, isolated, and have violent mood swings. The thing about Libras is that public image is everything to them. Think i am not fake person. 2. Like it is mentioned above we like to flake out on our family members and that is something I can't deny, we are just looking for guidance we can't find and actually we know all the stuff we want to know already, we just can't find it in all the shit that we bathe in in our minds. However, sometimes the Libra man tends to hide his emotions, and it can be difficult to read their energy. The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading. That would be my control issue. 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All that is written is so true. According to the CDC, "more than two in five adults experienced symptoms of anxiety or a depressive disorder in their lifetime." All scorpios are poison and made out to be like we're the horrible ones. Don't take this as a sign of weakness or to underestimate use.v.e.r. every sign has a dark side but a libra??? I'll counter her with a weapon she despises kicking and screaming back into her own pit of hell yes, I'll kill her with my own personal happiness! While it is true that Libras can be skilled . Of course all us libra aren't like that and have EVERY negative trait. Try to spend plenty of quality time with your Libra because they value one-on-one time and often aren't happy being alone. You will never be able to lie to us and get away with it.we can see the lies before they ever come out of your mouth. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? Dark-side Librans ignore or hush up reports of pain or unpleasantness and fool themselves that things they don't acknowledge didn't happen. It sux to say but all these dark traits are traits I have observed in myself to some degree (some more than others) and I feel it growing. They are usually gentle and slow to anger, but can turn vicious in a moment if need be. Libra: Don't leave them alone They try to show that nothing is wrong. Albeit we have a dark side to us that is one a Libra should NEVER fully embrace (Because once we go darkside..the path of pain and destruction from us will be relentless) we also have a light side that shines brighter than any other in this world. She buys and bribes people with any means. RELATED: What Taurus Is Like In Relationships. (I made Mr. Libra 2 look good in photos). Its a constant battle. Eventually I got tired of playing cat and mouse with him and his uncertainty that I tried to call it quits. HELL NO. I love her like a sister. Seriously wtf! I was overwhelmed and tearful as it was my dad who gave me it in advance, and it was the first time he told me he loved me - I am telling her the story, she wasn't interested and tried to turn it all back to her new Prey, a new man. (Of course I'm born in October hahaI happen to be controlling indeed toward those who get closer to me; in the work-social arenaa combination of practicality- choosing your battles- and impracticality - picking battles you can't win, just to make a point, I do that too. We don't try to be that way, it's who we are. I'm sorry many of you have had incredibly bad experiences with Librans, but understand that not all of them deserve to be so harshly judged. I married a Libra male for 6 years I was lucky to get only 1 year of child support out of him. It's a bad place to be when someone makes you feel you don't know what you're talking about, are stupid, or just plain crazy. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. The list of behaviors below will help you realize how to make a Libra woman happy. Normally with a libra when they have a fight with a friend they think they cant trust anyone but when the tears stop they over think and the tears come back but its best to let them be and most likely they will forgive you after and it might become a cycle that they cant stop unless people treat them differently, Libras are very nice,loyal,friends that will STAY by your side once you are very close friends the first couple steps with a libra might be hard for them because they find it hard to talk to new people they would rather stay near someone they know, Yes the rumours are true 100% libras HATE being alone they cant stand it that they will either 1.turn it into emotions and cry because they are sensitive 2.they will either do anything to not be alone but if they get left alone with no one for a while they will begin to over think and trust NO ONE at all 3.sit there and think a lot about the situation, The bad side of a libra I already know they do lie but the main 3 reasons why is because 1.they dont want to be embarrassed 2.for there friendship they will lie 3.they will lie to stop anxiety and overthinking another big thing they might lie about is definitely emotions they will either not want to talk and say they are great when they are 100% not to stop people from thinking they are to sensitive or say they a great when they are not to make the other person not worry about them, If you have a libra friend and they are controlling then Im not sure what you can do but things what you should NOT do is 1.talk over them 2.if you yell at them or be aggressive in any way they will either fight back EXTREMELY HARD or cry because they feel like they are a bad person 3.dont tell them to stop crying and being emotional because it will make it worse also it will make them try not to cry that it hurts so much that they do cry what you should do is 1.be very positive and calm and tell them nice things the way to tell them they are doing the wrong thing is to speak very calmly and take it slowly and after make sure they are ok and engorge them to be positive, A libra Leo,Gemini and a Scorpio will go really bad it might be good but it will end up extremely bad but I hope this helped you just know that libras are full of emotions and love anywhere and everywhere. im prayin she would find a bf to get a distraction. 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